To self. Rediscovering me. The first step.
- wandenaura
- Oct 21
- 3 min read
I hear you. I am you. I'm with you.
You fear abandonment from others, yet I see now that I have abandoned you too. I have lost touch with who you are, what you love, what you need, what you deserve. There is no one else to blame, only me. Only you.
You were once so full of life. That spark still lies within you. It's your job to maintain it. No one else's. You are more stronger than you know but you've lost sight. Operating off auto pilot and stuck in survival mode. You owe it to yourself to not only step out of it, but to make sure you don't end up back there. Move with intention.
All you've overcome, all you've endured and you've always found light in the dark. You've always come out on the other side stronger. Remember your worth. Take the time to step back into yourself intentionally. Step back into your worth, once you do there is clarity, there is acceptance, it is the opportunity for change and growth.
You deserve growth, you deserve love, you deserve to be chosen, to be fought for. You deserve to be reminded you are unique, you offer a lot. You give a lot. You love a lot. You deserve that tenfold. So give it to yourself, so that you never require that of another and that well never runs dry. You owe it to yourself to give to yourself all of the things you require in another, so that regardless of another's choices or actions, you are never without.
Make your life a place you want to stay, not escape from. You're going to build a body, a home, a rhythm, and a self relationship so strong that it pours into you. Anyone who wants to be there will be stepping into your solid ground, not your survival mode.
You deserve clarity. You deserve certainty. You are worthy. You are enough. I am here. I will never leave you again. i'm sorry I abandoned you. I forgive you. You will heal, you always have.
Tap back into your light so it can reach the places it's meant to, not just the ones you wish it could. Your growth will be memorable. Stand in your pain, stand in your lessons, stand in your love, stand in your gratitude.
Be soft. Be sensitive. Those are your strengths. You've been hardened by survival; now it's time to surrender to your becoming. Let go of what you cannot control and trust the lessons that remain. Because this, this return to yourself, is Wandenaura. It's the journey inward, the reminder that home has always been within you.
To my readers:
If you've ever abandoned yourself, know it's never too late to return. There comes a point in life (or multiple) where you stop searching for direction outside of yourself and instead you begin to listen. To the whispers of your intuition, to the rhythm of your soul, to the subtle pull of your Wandenaura. Your inner compass guides you through every season of growth.
Wandenaura isn't just a brand, its a movement. A remembrance. It's the realization that healing, creation, and transformation begin from within and that by honoring our inner worlds, we learn to move through the out one with more intention, grace, and alignment.
This space was created to inspire you to travel spiritually, mentally, physically, and emotionally. To root yourself deeply, rise in your truth, and wander with purpose. Through self care, creative workshops, rituals, storytelling, and intentional products, we'll explore what it means to live intentionally. To nurture both the light and the shadow, and to keep choosing yourself through every cycle.
Here, you'll find reflections, rituals, and reminders that you are your own compass and that your path is not meant to be perfect, only true to YOU.
This is the beginning of my journey back to me (again) and I hope Wandenaura can be the place that reminds you to return to yourself too. Welcome to Wandenaura, where your journey begins within.


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